I call it : THE..erm...theory of life?

Ok, seriously! Where do bloggers get the inspiration to blog every single day?! Well, some of them do.

It's been a really really really rough month and a half for me. Too much pressure, I'm just glad it's all over. Decisions have been made. Everyone's happy. I can finally breathe.


So over the days, I came up with a little theory that may seem SUPER obvious to many, but I only just figured it out, so be patient with me. Heh. :D

Family, the people who matter the most in your life. These are the people who have stood by you since the very minute you were born, and they aren't going anywhere just yet. There are times when they are going to be hard on you, so hard you'll cry and wonder whatever happened to a little something called MERCY! Ok, maybe not that hard, I'm over-exaggerating, BUT you get my point. And sure, at that point in time, we get upset, we start hating everything. And when it's all over, you realize that it's what you NEEDED. You don't like it, but if them being hard on you is what it takes to get the job done, then so be it.

Friends ( And by friends I mean the close ones who you keep in touch with the rest of your life), the people you CHOOSE to become close to. These are the people who choose to stand by you. These are the people who choose to care about you. They are never hard on you, but they bring your spirits up when things are down. They help you get through the tough times. They make things look better, easier, happier, than it really is. They give you hope. I know one thing for sure, every time I go out with a group of friends, I always come back having the biggest smile on my face. ( thank you! you know who you are =] )


So! My conclusion : Your family gives you what you need, your friends give you what you want. You can't live without either of them.

There were times when I was put in a situation where I had to choose between family and friends. Which was the most unfair position you can ever put someone in. No one should ever have to choose between family of friends. And that's why I love each and every person in my life today. *grins*

Hehe.